Friday, July 11, 2008

Boys and tears...

As you well know by now, we are big into reserving a friendly environment for our frog and toad population. But we have had some problems as of late. The 2 legged kind. There are 2 neighbor brothers, ages 8 and 14, who have taken a shine to the frog habitat in our ditch. The road drain off-open top- which is on/connecting to our property. We HAD brought the spottable population down there from just a few to over fourteen this year. That is no longer. Those 2 boys have been crossing the road over to where the drain pipe pirs into the ditch and brings their BB gun to shoot the frogs dead. Panda informed them we do not like it and it was mean. Please stop. So every time they would see us, they would leave the frog spot. the next day, they were down there gun in hand, shooting our little green friends once again. As soon as they saw me pull in our drive, they high tailed back to their house. That following day they left the gun and decided to just catch them and bring the frogs back to their house for shooting. As Panda walked back from her friends house and spotted what they were doing, she informed them" My mom and I are animals lovers and you need to stop killing our frogs." They ignored her so she informed them "I'm going to go tell my mom!" I was already on my way walking towards them and she let me know what was going on. I yelled out to them "Please guys, stop doing that!". Ignored once again. I went down to the ditch which has been littered by kids juice box's and soda cans lately- which infuriated me even more. So I threw a tantrunm and those juice box's right at their driveway, yelling I was tired of this sh** and it will stop NOW! I called the local police department and was informed they could do nothing unless the kids were caught littering or with the gun out of their yard by the police. So I put this up in hopes of getting my point across:
As I went back to the sign, making sure no one disturbed it, Those boys pulled in with their dad (40 something who lives with his mom and dad with the boys visiting in the summer). The dad was eating an apple from atop their hill drive and glared at me over his apple. Of course I was not in the mood from being messed with (and PMS is in the door) so I smiled up at him and yelled a jolly "HI!" smiling ear to ear. he just glared. The older boy said something to his dad about turning my sign around. Go ahead punk. Touching that sign means trespassing onto my property. I will press charges on your punk butt. Do not mess with me. I do not play well with disrespectful people and parents who let their kids kill animals for fun. It may be just a sign, but the grandparents are far more respectful and I feel once they see the sign, would tell the boys to stay away. We will see.
Another boy upseting me is Lil' Man. He decided Frog needed a hair cut and those beautiful curls are now just a fond memory...Yes those are bald spots on her forehead.There was a small section of hair on the neck and one side of her head. No way to save it, so she has the hair cut of a boy...Tears falling on cut curls...
And for the last guy...Captain feather sword, our silkie roo has passed away. He had been with us for almost 5 years and have no idea how old he was when we got him. he stopped crowing a few weeks back. He seemed to not have the energy he once had. I thought it may have been because of him sensing the new bigger roosters coming into maturity. But it seems, he was just getting to that last weeks of his life. A life that showed such gentleness towards us and his ladies. Never roughing them. Such a gentleman with his ladies. He stuck to them like glue that last few weeks and when we found him, Fletcher was nudging him. Not pecking in meanness, but like she was trying to get him to move. He is buried in the side yard. I could not dispose of him like trash when he meant so much more to us and his ladies. He lead a great life.
On a happier note, The blue cheese is now in the basement fridge to cure. I have Farmers cheese draining it's whey in that fridge too. It will be made into cheesecake for tomorrow's skeet shooting fun event. I'm making that cheesecake from scratch and will leave it plain with a graham cracker crust. As side dishes, wild black raspberries and strawberries made into a toppings for who ever should choose to try it.( apparently I have been picking those and not blackberries. Black berries do not have the hollow indent as Raspberries do**). I am also making little cupcake cheesecakes with the Jello brand mix with Fernie's milk too. Also plain with a choice of toppings with a graham cracker crust. The little ones I feel would appeal more to the children, and the taste may be more appealing for their inexperienced taste buds.
I am so pumped up, I hope I can sleep tonight! Of course, this lone road trip would not be complete without a trip to the serenity creek and more stepping stones carried home in the truck bed.
Sweetest dreams,
~Tammie

11 comments:

Don said...

It's so hard to understand people sometimes. To kill just to do it is beyond me. For adults to condone the activity is a crime. Can the police take action if you have video footage of the brats?

The haircut will someday be a funny family story. But for now the beautiful curls are greatly missed. Our daughter got real active with scissors; hair neighbor's curtains, books, etc.

jmyers said...

Couple of suggestions for the frogs, A small fence and a game camera the best you can afford. Not only does it establish a barrier but could provide photo or video evidence. Getting the local police to deal with kids shooting frogs will be hard, tresspass and destruction of private property might help. Just A thought, Then there is that other way.......

The Unusually Unusual Farmchick said...

The problem lies with the ditch being township property. We maintain it and and the half which sides with the street is what they own. So its considered not ours. But the sign seems to have worked. The grandparents have kept the boys away. They seem to be the kind of people who want no trouble, its their son who is not as considerate. Those boys will grow up with at least respectful grandparents.
They have seen my temper flare over other things and know I do not put up with other people disrespecting or noising about our property.
Hopefully by the time I get back, this will all be taken care of.
I have the cheesecake in the oven and need to milk Fernie before I go in 2 hours...
Thanks guys for the suggestions. If it comes down to any more problems, I will consult with the zoning about the fence. Play it out about the safety of the kids and the trash they keep leaving. They would care more about that anyway. The water is not clean so I could use the not healthy card and reliability stuff.
Have a great weekend and I will share about my trip/skeet shooting fun on Sunday.
~Tammie

Stephanie said...

my brother decided to cut my hair once while i was sleep because he was mad at me. I had a triangle patch right above the middle of my forehead, right before school pics too.

Connie Peterson said...

Good luck with your signs - I hope they work - it is so frustrating and sad that what you treasure is trashed by others.

Lauriebelle said...

OMG....I live across the country from you and I still want to come kick some frog killing behinds! Good on you for putting your foot down!

By the way...I just found your blog from another member on HT and I'm lovin it!

RunninL8 said...

It sickens me to think about what occurs in a kids life so that they evolve into heartless, desenstitized bullies/killers. Moral compasses on the fritz.
The camera thing sounds like good advice-the second they leave that yard with a bb gun....
Glad they have a couple months a year with some grandparents who may be a better influence.
The DREADED sibling inflicted hair cut. Twas only a matter of time...
;)
Your goodies sound so YUMMY!!! Time to go eat breaky!

Megan said...

If they are shooting onto your property then you should be able to do something about it. Maybe you can play dumb when you call the cops next time and just say that there's someone shooting at your house and if they want to know more particulars tell them you're too scared to look. LOL But what if one of your kids was outside playing and got hit be a b.b.? It probably won't do any damage, but it will hurt. Also there's some hunting equipment you could use, it's a motion sensored infared/ night vision camera. You could set it up to take pics of the kids when they come by.
Just some suggestions, because that really ticks me off...
Megan

Country Girl said...

Lack of parenting is the problem of those boys. I'd be kicking some hiney, for sure. BB guns can be dangerous especially for the eyes, seen a few of those injuries in the ED.
My son cut by daughters hair on a couple occasions. Not funny at the time but funny to look back on!
~Kim

SwedeHart said...

I have a step-son, and we had him for about 6 weeks this summer, and since the last time I saw him, his level of violence has increased 100 fold. Every stick on the ground is a potential weapon of some sort. He shapes them into machine guns and 100 other types of guns that I couldn't begin to know the names of. He at one point over the holiday and one such stick in hand and threatened to stab his sister when he couldn't force her to walk home with him. The men/boys love to watch action movies together- and since I have noticed this evolution of violent behavior in my stepson, the only thing I could really think to do that would make a difference was to leave the room/house when they put a violent movie in, to voice my opinion. It's actually been quite effective. Sorry, I don't know how that helps you.

City Mouse said...

Horrible brats. I can't wait to hear what happened and if they ever touched the sign. Awful. On a happier note - I'm happy to have found your blog through Homesteading Webloggers, and I'm headed back to mine to put you on my links list so I can come back and visit!

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